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Be respectful is crazy lol 😂

I’m a girl and I work in software sales which is predominantly a male industry therefore all my friends are mostly men. I didn’t meet them in my childhood but I’m with them all the time because we work together. It’s always appropriate though.

Hella simps

Black Folks don’t date! I like you you like me we go together.

Men paying the bills and paying for dates is not a new thing. Women HAD to get married to men because they weren’t allowed to work, or have bank accounts, or get a loan, buy a house, etc. It’s funny how men put themselves in that situation to be the “provider”, but blame women. The problem isn’t women. The problem is capitalism and patriarchy, but y’all aren’t ready to have that conversation.

😢😢😢😢😢😮😅😅😊😊

Bro makes her go down stairs when someone breaks in😊

Nothing wrong with being gay, live your life as you see fit.

I don’t want my man to look at me like a child…

lol tik tok users: CONTEXT is important

this entire interview is being taken out of context on social media, and as a woman it’s actually really insightful to hear from a man different answers to these questions

This podcast ateeee. At first I started watching it because of all the hate on tik tok but everything that was said is just facts

If I can give you my last. I can give you my all.

The last bite is the one.

Some ppl are saying sprinkle sprinkle shouldn’t be taken seriously or he’s misunderstanding what it means. Y’all can say this but reactions to Jalen saying he doesn’t believe the default of being a provider is solely monetary shows that his views on the sprinkle sprinkle movement was right in the mind of many women. A lot of women now question Jalen’s right as a man, his masculinity, and in crazy cases his sexuality bc they now view him as a broke leech because he’s not Monet’s default walking wallet. The original message of the sprinkle sprinkle movement may have been different but women now or showing out in the worst way possible, doing exactly as what men do connecting a women’s worth as a human being/woman to the state of her body by connecting Jalen’s worth as a man by him not paying both his and Monet’s separate mortgages and all hers/his extracurriculars as a nonmarried/childless couple. The toxic response to this open, non-malicious conversation shows what the sprinkle sprinkle movement means to many now.

Not every man can be able to provide… that’s okay

The red flag is asking the question

I came from that one clip that's been circulating on tiktok, and a bunch of women are stitching it trying to shame him as if he said anything bad. it's like some women are threatened by men whose self worth doesn't only derive from their capacity to provide or from them being the sole provider. Basically men who don't feel less of a man because they don't have all the financial power, which is ironic. those women basically want a man who needs to have leverage over them

Came over bc one app doesn’t show the picture.

nah he’s keeping it real, I appreciate that

such a good episode

This podcast has 15k views yet millions of people are writing think pieces on a 30 second video taken out of context.

If you know, you know. Knew I wanted to be with my girl forever about 2 weeks after meeting her. Getting married in September

Screaming!!! Came here from TikTok. I want part 2! Nowwwww😭

What's the tittle of the movie??

Y'all need books. It's called being a gentlemen. 60% of is being considerate of others, and looking to service and assist when needed. those hard action that involves muscles aches, pains and strain doesn't form masculinity.

The fact that there only 13k views on this but millions and millions of hateful comments towards jalen shows how many people didn’t watch the full thing. Social media is a wild place. Any women judging their relationship is clearly not in a healthy one.

I love this episode … but now a days dudes be wanting women to bring something to the table

It’s so refreshing to know there’s still grounded people on these platforms in spite of all the fame, money, & hate they receive. They never loose sight of what’s actually important, which is the life that is happening before their eyes not obsessing over the lives they see online. A relationship shouldn’t just be this or that, each relationship is different in terms of their values and how they choose to live. Just find what works best for you and live fully.

He was speaking facts

bro these people on tiktok are sooo miserable 😂😂😭😭😂😂😂 they literally hate themselves. no way they watched this video and got that one piece and flipped it so hard.

I’m not going to use a play on English words here…all I have is Ew

Lol the lady his talking about Is shera 7. She dosnt sit on social media but on UA-cam exclusively. Shera deems herself a finacial advisor not a dating coach . She is not giving anyone any advice about dating . Infact she encourages people to go out be young and find love and enjoy it The problem is people think and believe she is giving out relationship advise meanwhile she is giving out her version of financial advice

Some of ya'll really missed the point of sprinkle sprinkle

31:14 men should not be paying for the woman’s whole life. If y’all are married then that’s different. There’s nothing wrong with what Jalen said. We should spoil men too

30:02 sprinkle sprinkle is the most disgusting advice ever. Shera promotes getting the bag from a man & leaving. Terrible advice

I think the ability to take charge, make decisions and get things done for your partner is being a “provider”. If ya girl calls you freaking out cuz she’s stranded on the side of the road w a flat, and w no AAA, if you’re able to fix that problem for her, then you’re a great provider. Whether you fix it yourself, or just call someone to get it done. Providing emotional comfort! Whether it requires physical or financial action! I’m sure a woman would appreciate you fixing the tire yourself or calling someone to fix it, either way, just getting it done regardless

I’d like to start by saying Jalen seems like a decent person, who is genuinely working on being a good partner. However, engaging manosphere talking points is as toxic as he feels sprinkle sprinkle is. For this particular discussion they are two sides of the same coin. Whether or not him and his lady enjoy 50/50 is none of my concern, but please don’t use toxic to counter toxic.

This was like therapy and the conversation was well articulated thank you

This was so good! I really value the opinions you both shared. I’m happy I listened to the whole episode instead of reacting to the clips circulating on social media.

it’s insane that a clip from this is going viral a month later. and exactly what he spoke about in the beginning is happening 🫢 people see one clip and run with it so bad. just because they need to dissect a seemingly happy couple

Sad results I can become rich but not attractive😢

You should never casually be dating. The whole point of dating is to find your life partner. And if the person you are dating wants to do inappropriate content for other men's pleasure, that is not your life partner. If you are doing that while we are dating, what's stopping you when we're married?

Jalen came ready to pod in these convos, you can tell!🤝🏾

Belongs to the streets

Break up with her

This chick does OF 100%, only a OF model would say some stupid shit like that.

This is why a girl can’t answer that question

"If you really love your girl you would be okay with her flirting with strangers online and undressing for them"

Why do people casual date that shouldn’t be a thing that’s like saying im gonna use you and then I’m good